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Sarah Had a SECRET that Made Me
– a Self-Professed PLAYER –
Finally Fall in Love.
After 15 Years of Playing the Field and Dreading the Thought of Being
“Tied Down,” I Met a Woman Who Was SO IRRESISTIBLE
That I Couldn’t Wait to Get Serious With Her.
To Learn How Sarah’s Secret Can Help You Meet Men and Get Them to Commit,
Read My Story…
Hey Ladies,
I have a confession to make: I used to be a player.
Not to brag, but as a good looking, professional thirty-something guy in New York City, I was living THE LIFE. On any given night, you could find me in one of the hottest spots in Manhattan surrounded by drop-dead gorgeous women. I’d get such a rush from buying them drinks, flirting, and getting their phone numbers. Some of these women I actually went on a few dates with; most I just took home for the night.
Truth is, no one woman could hold my attention for very long. Why? Because I knew that there was always a new, more attractive and exciting woman just around the corner. Why should I get tied down when the world was filled with possibilities beyond my wildest imagination?
Sure, I felt bad when women would get attached, but it wasn’t my fault. I was up front with them – I told them from the get-go that I wasn’t interested in a serious relationship.
As they say, “don’t hate the player…hate the game.”
Well even if you ARE hating me right now, you’re definitely going to want to hear the rest of my story. That’s because, just one short year later, my life is completely different, and you’ll be shocked to discover why…
I’ll never forget the night I met Sarah.
She walked into the bar where I was hanging out with my buddies, and although she looked nothing like the women I normally hit on, she almost immediately caught my eye. At first I couldn’t figure it out… by all accounts Sarah looked pretty, well, average, and it’s not like she was wearing a short skirt or revealing top. So what was it about her that was so magnetic? (Later, I realized, it was her confidence. The way she carried herself, the un-self-conscious way she laughed with her friends. Her smile.)
I had to talk to her. I left the fake-blonde model-wannabes to my buddies and I headed toward the mysterious brunette. As I walked her way, she looked up and flashed me a warm smile. I knew I had the green light to approach.
From the moment we began talking, I knew something about this woman was different. She was funny, charming, and I’ll say it again – confident. And then the strangest feeling came over me – what was it? Oh yeah! For the first time in a long time, I was nervous.
I tried to get my “game” back. I gave her my number and said, “Call me sometime.” With every other woman I hit on, this move worked like a charm. But not with Sarah. She did the most unbelievable thing. She flipped my card over, wrote HER number on it, and said, “I’d really prefer if you called ME.” Damn this girl was good!
Needless to say, I called her. How could I not? I couldn’t get her out of my mind. In fact, I didn’t even follow my usual three-day rule. I called her…THE NEXT DAY.
Now I don’t mean to brag, but I’m used to women picking up the phone when I call. Not this time… Her phone rang, rang, rang… VOICEMAIL! Crap! And there was that feeling again…nervous! I left a stupid sounding message (Where the hell was my game?!?) and waited for her to call me back.
After 6 hours went by with no return phone call, I was going out of my mind. So I did something I NEVER do. I called her AGAIN. This time Sarah picked up. We had a great, light conversation. She apologized for not calling back and explained she was really busy – something about dance class, lunch with her sister, and she had to keep our call short because she was getting ready to go out and meet her girlfriends. I figured if I ever wanted to see this woman, I’d have to get on her calendar ASAP. There was no “catching her later” at a bar like my usual M.O. – I was going to have to ask her on a proper date.
So I did. She agreed, but she was booked solid for a week. I was going to have to wait 9 days to see her again!!!
That week I met my friends out as usual, but something felt different. I didn’t have my usual enthusiasm for “the game.” Sure, I talked to women, but no matter how attractive they were, I couldn’t get Sarah out of my head.
As a player, that was the beginning of the end for me. As a man, I’d say it was just the beginning.
Just one short year later, after dating the most exciting, interesting, enigmatic, confident woman I’d ever met, I asked Sarah to marry me.
After fifteen years of playing the field and dreading the idea of getting “tied down,” I’d finally met the woman who made me so crazy about her I couldn’t imagine living another day without her. Her confidence and attitude make me certain that, unlike other women, she will always hold my interest and keep things exciting in our relationship. I can’t wait to see what each new day brings.
So why am I telling you this story?
Because Sarah has a secret that makes her totally irresistible to me (and almost every man who has the pleasure of meeting her). And, as I mentioned before (and Sarah will tell you herself), it’s not because she’s a “10” physically. It’s something much deeper, and – believe it or not – it’s something ANY woman can learn.
And Sarah has given me permission to share the secret with you.
But why am I taking time to share this secret with total strangers? A couple of reasons: First, after all my years of careless dating and breaking hearts, I figure I’d better do something good to improve my Karma. After taking so much from so many women, I figured that teaching them how to beat a player at his own game was one of the best ways I could help out and give back!
Second, now that I’ve finally settled down and have love in my life, I see how many women get emotionally annihilated by the dating mistakes they make. Once I learned about Sarah’s secret, I realized that these mistakes could be easily corrected if women only knew what they were. Women don’t have to lose at the dating game!
(Plus, what do I care now… I’ve found “the one” for me, so why not help level the playing field for all the other women out there!!!)
So you’re probably wondering what the secret is, right?
Sarah read this book that she claims “totally changed her life” called “Dating Without Drama” (the author has a free "Understanding Men" quiz here http://www.DatingWithoutDrama.com ).
She says it taught her how to build her confidence and date with self-esteem. She learned how to flirt, use body language, exactly what to do on dates, and most of all, how men really think and act and how to use this knowledge to her advantage so she could make the best decisions possible.
Remember when I told you about how we first met? How she refused to call me, didn’t return my calls right away, had a busy life that I had to work to be fit into? These were all strategies she learned from “Dating Without Drama,” and believe me, they worked like a charm.
Now my guy friends are going to kill me for this, but I’ve gotta confess, we really love the chase. It’s just the simple truth. And unlike all the other women I was meeting a year ago, Sarah didn’t chase me. I had to do the work, and it made me crazy about her (apparently, something she learned in the advice she got after taking the "Understanding Men" quiz). I felt like she was the ultimate prize and I wanted to be the one to win her. And when I did, I discovered that she had all kinds of substance to back it up. Brains, confidence – everything a man is looking for long-term.
Sarah not only credits “Dating Without Drama” for helping her make the right decisions in the beginning of our dating (while I got over my fears and commitment-phobic behavior!), she also says that it has taught her how to handle our relationship now that we’re serious. For example, when we get in an argument, she uses tips she’s learned from the chapter on Communication. (It’s times like these I wish there was a “Dating Without Drama” for men!)
Anyway, if you’re a woman who’s tired of losing at the dating game and you want to learn how to attract, meet and get asked out on dates by men… or if you’re in a relationship and you want to discover how to keep him interested and take your connection to the next level, I highly recommend you check out “Dating Without Drama.” Start by taking the free "Understanding Men" quiz and getting your personalized analysis. It helped my fiancée Sarah transform herself from a shy and insecure woman to a confident knockout who stole my heart and made me want to be a better man.
If it worked for her on a guy like me, I just know it will work for you.
Good luck,
Sam R.